So, when I first started looking for a dress I went to a really nice boutique here in Louisville called Rebecca's Wedding Boutique.  I found several dresses that I liked but they were all over 1,000 dollars, which just wasn't reasonable to me since I'm having such a small wedding.  So, I decided on a discontinued Jessica McClintock dress that was really cheap...like 360 bucks and thought I would get some fun details added by a local tailor.  So, I shopped around for tailors and found one that I had heard good things about.  I talked with the tailor and gave him a discription of what I wanted and he seemed like it would be no problem.  Well, I went in a week ago for my first fitting and he had barely even touched the dress.  He had shortened the length and added a little lace around the hem but it was exactly how I told him NOT to do it...Also, the side seams were bunching up but he swore he did not touch the side seams.  Needless to say I was very disappointed and now am not sure what to do.  Most wedding dresses take months to get back from the retailer and I only have 3 months...probably less by the time I see the finished product of my current dress and decide if I can live with it or not...I know if worse comes to worse and I hate my dress a month before the wedding I'm sure I can buy something off the rack...but I guess this just isn't how I envisioned the whole wedding dress process.  I'm nervous, worried, and stressed over it and my tailor has not been communicating very well with me.  He told me it would be ready a week ago but when I got there and asked why it wasn't finished he said, "Oh, I thought you knew this was just the preliminary fitting..."  WHAT?!  Are you kidding me?  Plus, it was NOT what we had discussed at all!  Did I mention he wants to charge me several hundred dollars for these alterations?!  UGHHHH!